So he could've done it based on what he felt at the time?
I remember he and the OW changed their number the Friday before he filed. They had just came back from a little get-away in a near-by state. Then I logged on to a profile site and saw that she set her status profile to "can't sit steady b/c I'm ready..." and that set off something inside of me.
So then I called the circuit clerk in the county I thought he was still living in (the following Monday). He filed during lunch time and I found out lke 20 min after he just filed. I know it wasn't a coincidence.
I might be reading too much into what has happened...I don't know.
I'm sorry if I'm annoying...but I can't seem to let it stop baffling me!
He was married before and his XW filed but she waited 18 mos to file and he didn't try to do anything before that time.
Ok..I think I know where you're theory is getting at...he filed based on emotion...then by the time I filed my response, the emotions based on what set him off to file were gone. (so maybe he did it out of anger? I mean pissed off kind of anger, do you know what I mean?)
Could he have not done it "right" when he filed on purpose? Like he was doing this, knowing I would find out somehow even though I don't live in the state just to get me all riled up?
Does my situation seem hopeless?
Do you think he has even a shred of love left for me as his wife?
