I don't know all the intricacies of your situation but I've read your posts and sort of been one of the lurkers watching your threads from time to time. So what I say is purely from the suface of things... but it seems that your friends are just very concerned about you and obviously love you to pieces or they wouldn't bother with questioning the wisdom of your new R. From what it seems you, like many others here, have been through hell and are just now on your way back out. The band-aid thing is a very real concern.... it is so freaking easy to get swept up in the "wow" of it all because finally at long last you feel human again... and it feels soooo wonderful to be wanted and important and appreciated. Sometimes it is this wonder we get caught up in and enjoy so much that it is far more desirable than finishing the healing process which still involves that less than pleasant introspect. I guess the big concern would be.... just don't go jumping half-healed.... you'll only end up back in the same place having to finish the process with possibly more work...
Just my 2 cents.... I wish you all the best Ian!
Last edited by lost-n-found; 06/11/0806:53 PM.
Psa 51:10 Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.
