Still trying to be patient 4

[No Longer BH]

Karen, IMO H is ONLY looking out for himself. Just think how much better he would look to OW if he were in a nice big apt instead a crappy one because he still has responsibilities to his family. YOU know what is best for your kids, you stayed by their sides and have helped them over come some very hard difficulties. Your H doesnt know because he put himself first, over their need of having a loving complete family. This is his selfishness talking, not his desire to find a better solution for the children. As you said, you have already been down that road and know where it leads. One of my best friends has a S with Asbergers (sp?). She lives in the BEST school district in our state and still had to pull her son out becasue she could not get his needs met there. It is a hard road you are walking, but it is the right path. Dont try and let him push you any other way so that he can get a better deal.