JeffSTL: It's going to be hard to wait a year. At what point can I start dating again, do I have to wait for the D to be final.

cat03: Unless you want a rebound R, you might want to wait a year, when you don't have that yearning and when you are whole, not desperate.

I know cat, thanks for keeping me honest, wishful thinking, how nice it would be to hold someone and to be held, I know the rules, clean my house first before I move on, I have a lot of house cleaning to do before I invite someone over.

JeffSTL: Other D6 complained of being sick last night, crawled into bed with me at midnight, boy she was restless, kicking and rolling around all night.

cat03: and that's why I don't let kids sleep with me, last week I let them and I was up every 2hrs rolling either d5 or s10 or the dog to one side so I can have a spot, lol

That's funny - I was too tired to take her back downstairs to her bedroom, D6 that was with me, is the smallest, very petite, but wow she is strong, kicking me, pushing me, grabbing the covers. She is my toughest kid, small, petite, girl who typically never gets sick, and stands up to her older sister. she doesn't put up with any crap, tomboy, her twin sister on the other hand is all girl.

We all have a long haul ahead of us good or bad it's the path we choose thats important.

M45
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M10 3/4 years
D9, D6, D6, S5
OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me
WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08