by saying my husband just let go...do you mean b/c he made the decision to file hastily and that caused him to not be able to think straight or really think about what he was about to do?
What I tried to say was that his initial filing was all based on emotion. By the time you countered, the emotion was gone. He didn't have the energy or motivation to follow up and make it happen. So, he just let it go. That's my theory on why he didn't get things done "right" the first time.