Originally Posted By: LolaL
So anger is not necessarily a bad thing


True, it's not.

However, whatever you do, Michelle, do not let him see you angry. Do what you're going to do in a firm but calm manner. Stand your ground without the anger. If he sees or senses it, he will believe even more that YOU are the problem, and not himself.

I'm sure you would say that at this point, you don't care. I've been angry many times and felt the same way, too. But in the end, the anger doesn't do a thing for you. It does not help anyone.

(((Michelle)))


Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell