Your posts as of late are very off kilt and are more on the lines of you needing validation for something? What it is, I do not know, but there is something else going on and it's not all about the new young girl.
I agree that Ian's posts have been a bit different in tone lately, but my impression was always that he's just really tired of the whole situation with STBX, has been bit more overwhelmed by it at times because of this, and is ready to close that chapter once and for all and move forward with the cards he's been dealt.
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Originally Posted By: Jeanette1120
Whatever it is Ian, it's easy enough to tell that your not ready for a serious relationship with anyone right at this moment.
I agree, but haven't gotten the impression that he either is in or wants a serious relationship at this point (again I could be misreading the situaiton) - and he seems to have been VERY upfront about that with this person.
Originally Posted By: Jeanette1120
YOU NEED TO DO THE RIGHT THING.
Remember everything you've learned Ian. Put it to practice.
From what I know both here on the boards and from talking to him in person, I think he's doing both of these things, and pretty well.
Kev
"Our greatest glory is not in never falling but in rising every time we fall." -Confucius
"God alone decides the contest; but we must put our shoulders to the wheel." -Adm. D.G. Farragut
Kevin-38; XW-36 M-2.5, together 4 Bomb-1/6/07; D-6/27/07
