"Do you think she would go to MC. The house issue is sticky..anyway for her to get out of that lease?? She sure sounds on the fence and that she's worried your moving on. It looks like you handled this OK."
As with most WAS that is something she adamantly says no way to. As far as the lease I think it is definitely something to look into loop hole maybe or just some understanding landlord possibly. The fence I really agree she seems to be teetering but is firm on working on herself so will leave it be for now. She is very concerned IMO she referenced it so many times last night
"She is reaching out a bit. When do you think you could meet her??"
I told her a week but am now thinking I should maybe mover it up to a specific time.
"I wonder what would have happened if you had reached out to her a bit??"
I don't know I really can't get a feel I don't want to push her away with her seeming in such a seesaw frame of mind makes me nervous like a long tailed cat in a room full of rockin chairs...
"Is there anyway you could ramp up the friendship at all? Without being pushy??"
Honestly it crossed my mind to ask her to go with me and the kids weds night out to eat for my b-day, what do you think?
"I don't like the fact that she thinks you may be moving on.."
This is what has me worried and why I told her in the convo that I have no 'time line' and still 'committed' it seems my being happy really is screwing up her mind which obviously was not my intention I just am finding a part place with myself and accepting what will be will be
