Listen, please do not take this the wrong way. I do mean what I'm going to say with sincerity. Ok?
Our personalities DO show, for those of us who have read each others posts for a very long time now, we usually can see when a fellow poster is kinda "Off Kilt" so to speak.
Your posts as of late are very off kilt and are more on the lines of you needing validation for something? What it is, I do not know, but there is something else going on and it's not all about the new young girl.
Whatever it is Ian, it's easy enough to tell that your not ready for a serious relationship with anyone right at this moment. Not at all.
You do need to keep on the right track, but most importantly YOU NEED TO DO THE RIGHT THING.
This experience has been hard on us all, and if you think your above it or over it, I do believe you would be deluding yourself.
We also may try and use a band-aide to help us over the hard parts. You must try to recognize what is a band-aide and what it a true action. You also need to realize that YOUR actions may hurt others.
I'm sure it's no ones intention to hurt another person in anyway. Neither our friends from the board or other friends in the outside life of this board.
Remember everything you've learned Ian. Put it to practice.
Sincerely,
Jeanette
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!
