I did the same when my stbx came back, I bent over backwards, but it was useless, in his mind he was gone, nothing I did fulfilled him... because he was emotionally empty, an emptiness only HE could've filled, and try to with ow of course, but even now, with ow, he's still a mess, just txted me telling me how he can't sleep & has lost so much weight. It took me a while to realize that his void was not my job to fill.
Originally Posted By: JeffSTL
It's going to be hard to wait a year. At what point can I start dating again, do I have to wait for the D to be final.
Unless you want a rebound R, you might want to wait a year, when you dont' have that yearning and when you are whole, not desperate. Personally I'd be wary of a man trying to date me while his D isn't final (take stbx's ow, he strung her along with that promise, when he wasn't even S nor D was in the future).
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Other D6 complained of being sick last night, crawled into bed with me at midnight, boy she was restless, kicking and rolling around all night.
and that's why I dont' let kids sleep with me, last week I let them and I was up every 2hrs rolling either d5 or s10 or the dog to one side so I can have a spot, lol
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
