To walk away from your family without fighting for it is ridiculous. I'm positive now that he's not MLC. He's just a WAH who decided he like it better away from responsibility and commitment.
I've had the same thoughts about my H. From his own mouth though, he feels like he was fighting for our family. It was just in a way that I didn't recognize. Just as he didn't understand what I was doing.
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I wish I could say that I'm done with him, but I can't be. I can't let go. I can move forward with my own life, but I will love him eternally and that is going to be my burden to bear for the rest of my life. This just totally sucks!
As my Mama used to say "don't wish your life away". If you're not done, then just be still. Work on some peace for yourself as you're deciding what you want to do next in your life for you and the kids. You don't have to be "done" to consider these things and work towards them. Hopefully it will help you to feel things are a little less sucky.
