I just got caught up on your thread. Sounds like you and H are on the right track. I agree, the post OW stuff is alot harder than I thought. I always wonder why she is on his mind at all if he is so "happy" here with us. H says he feels sorry for her because her dad is dying. I guess he feels like he is her only friend and is not there for her. I just want him to let her go completely and put the needs of this relationship first.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
