It makes no sense to me, but I have realized that until I get out of his way, he won't realize that I wasn't what is making him miserable.
My H was the same way. He didn't realize that I wasn't the cause until I completely let him go. He is unhappy and right now, you are the easiest thing to blame. When you let him go and he is still unhappy (he will be), then he will see.
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What I am struggling with is leaving the door open for him, even 1/4 inch, if he ever pulls his head out of his a$$. I am not sure I can forgive him anymore.
I struggled with this too. I think it depends on HOW he comes to you if he ever does pull his head out of his a$$. My H did things I didn't ever think I could forgive, but I am seeing that it is possible. It is your decision if you leave that door open and for how long.
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The legal S gives me some peace while keeping options open, but he's not gonna accept that because we would still be M and I would get health coverage through the military and he doesn't want me to have anything.
Well, he can't force you to sign the summary dissolution. You have to do what is best for you.
