the really sad thing is that his perception translates it all into "She's doing everything she can to prevent me from achieving my happiness".
I have finally started to realize that. It makes no sense to me, but I have realized that until I get out of his way, he won't realize that I wasn't what is making him miserable.
What I am struggling with is leaving the door open for him, even 1/4 inch, if he ever pulls his head out of his a$$. I am not sure I can forgive him anymore.
Originally Posted By: GoingForward
Tell him you simply cannot agree to a D right now, but the legal S, yes, you can and are willing to do that.
The legal S gives me some peace while keeping options open, but he's not gonna accept that because we would still be M and I would get health coverage through the military and he doesn't want me to have anything. I don't need his cooperation for a legal S though, and I may file it when I get back from AT.
He is trying to punish me because I haven't given up on him. He is so bound and determined to push me away. Well, I'm gone then.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
