FLTC, I think a lot of this has to do with most likely mild MLC and pride. She's one to stick to her guns once she makes a decision. She's rarely ever admitted fault for anything, work, family, relationship, etc. To her it seems admitting fault is admitting some weakness. But she knows when she's wrong like she knows when I am right. One thing she rarely has ever done was admit when I was right. She'd grudgingly just go along with it. Actually it became a bit of a joke with us, especially when we worked together.
But not matter what I'm in a good place, I stand for us, for the vows I gave from my heart. And I know deep down she appreciates the stand, appreciates the space I am now giving her. If reconciliation is to be she knows I'll never hold any grudge against her about all of this because love is my foundation, not hurt, bitterness, anger etc.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
