As of the 8th, we've been separated 19 months. We used to talk almost daily because we'd talk with the kids at night to say goodnight. (50-50 custody) About a month or so ago she quit calling at night and I think the girls really miss those calls. I in turn did the same thing.

Just two weeks ago she told me that she's told her attorney not to file. This and a few other things over the last 6 months have opened my eyes to her mild MLC. The big thing is, can she overcome what seems to be pride and look or at least consider rebuilding our relationship and our family. I don't know but I gave a vow that was from the heart and I intend to hold to that vow, so I stand and have stood for 19 months to this point and I'll continue to stand.


If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa

Me-44
W-42
S-11/8/06, D-9/12/08
M-19 1/2 yrs
D13, D11
Bomb-10/06