Leaving her COMPLETELY alone is the only thing I have NOT tried yet,
Well you are saying right there that you haven't done what she's asked. Time and space, it's a strange thing that's for sure. Oddly my wife said some similar things yet she was talking to me, emailing me, etc a good bit. Now she rarely does those things but she will talk to me and seems to enjoy time together when we have it with the kids. So who knows.
If there is something you need to discuss you might want to just send and email rather than try calling repeatedly. That will help her feel like she's getting the time and space. Be sure to combine issues into one email if at all possible too.
Lastly, remember what Michele tells us, "believe nothing they say and half of what they do."
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
