We all have a long haul ahead of us good or bad it's the path we choose thats important.I don't know if I can ever forgive my W for what she has done.
never posted to you before, but you are one amazing father, taking care of your 4 little ones, my hat's off to you.
What she's done has no name and she doesnt' deserve your forgiveness, but you do, forgiveness is a release of your soul. I thought I had forgiven my stbx but I guess I didnt' really because I still get angry now and then about what he's done to our beautiful family, my C told me that forgiveness isn't instant, that once you decide you are ready to forgive it is the beginning of a process, it takes time. Because of all the crap you've gone through recently your heart/soul doesnt' feel ready to forgive (can't blame you), but when the time comes you will be able to, for it seems you are a good man by the way you've conducted yourself through this terrible ordeal.
Again, I admire what a great person/father you are, and regardless what happens I know you will do great.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
