Thanks, Rusty! I'm planning on doing all of that. I had hoped to have lost some more weight by now, but...oh well!

Of course, the choir outfit is not the most flattering thing either, but I'm going to try to focus on enjoying the singing and performing.

And then, IF H shows up, I will smile, make eye contact, and be a friend. Best I can do.

My fear is, if he does NOT show up, that I will be crushed again.
And my detachment will be gone.

When is your son's wedding? And congrats to you on his getting married!

Married: 25 years
Separated: 5 years
Kids: 2, ages 21 and 24
Me: 53
H: 50

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