good on you that you kept it quiet, it is better that way.
Well, my sitch went south, we are legally sep., it is a long story, but my stbx left, had an A, came back, had the A again, it was a big mess, he has big mental problems (depression, narcisism, ADHD) and unwilling to do anything about it. He wanted the legal S, and it was just time to let him go. I did learn lots of good things while he was back with me for that year, I regret nothing, I did all I could, now I'm moving forward with my kids and I know I'll do great.
Good luck on your sitch, I highly encourage you let go of your anger, to forgive and to fight for your M now that your H is back and says he loves you.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
