Start of the long and bumpy road........

[TwinDad]

Thanks Jen, Julia I put some ideas on the house in your thread.

The last few days have gone very well

It kind of started with my W saying that she had been needing to get a full massage for a while. I responded by saying, well you know I am always willing to give you one, you just need to let me know when. She didn't say much to that. So two nights ago as we were going to bed, I just said tomorrow night. She said what? I said tomorrow night I will give you your full massage.

So last night, I picked up a bottle of her favorite wine and after we had dinner, I said, let me know when you would like me to draw your bath and give you your massage. She looked at me and said, we are doing that tonight? I said, well that is what I said last night, if you don't want to then that is ok to....I go with the flow. Around 10 she said ok, you can go ahead and draw my bath.

I set up the room with candles and music (she loves enigma) and drew her bath. Then started to give her a nice massage. I commented that I imagine this feels pretty good. She said, well bring the oil on the trip and I will give you one this weekend. She really enjoyed it and we actually ML for the first time in a couple of months!!! It was very nice.

I was worried about her pulling away afterwards, she seemed to a little bit as we got into bed, but I just reached over gently scratched her back and moved herself to sleep closer to me. I even got a nice hug this morning She even said she slept well last night

Now, I just have to keep myself cool some more, but needless to say I am pretty happy this morning