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Good! Then it was me who misunderstood.

Today I feel like a Mud Slide.


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You could come visit my thread once in awhile to make up for it...


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Originally Posted By: lodo
D*mn! I'm getting into the convo late and I don't really look like anybody.


Well, the, I guess you're Casper, the Friendly Ghost!

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Originally Posted By: Snow White
And Lodo - Pink Wine.

Of course - pink wine! \:D


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Hopefully this is a short post today--hard for me! \:\) Just picked up my D8 from art camp, and I'm on the job hunt today--have to post my resume and a cover letter on this website, and am going to go to a job fair tomorrow morning. Hopefully they will have some part-time jobs there! I'm going to try to look good so some perv boss will probably hire me at least! I mean, that's not my goal, just saying.... Karen


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There are some advantages to having a pervy boss: you'll get to have someone grabbing your @ss again since your H is no longer doing it! Remeber, there is always a silver lining! \:\) Good luck with the job hunt.


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Good Luck!! Do you really want them grabbing...or just looking?! lol

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Karen,

Looking "good" = GOOD.

Looking "hoochie-mama" = BAD.

We all know you know the difference. \:\/

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I will confess karen43 I looked at the victoria secrets link you posted - very nice.

Good luck in your job hunt,

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I'm going to try to look good so some perv boss will probably hire me at least!
I hope you don't really feel this way. I hire a lot of people and men are not all perv's

Couple of notes: yes dress well, dress for sucess. Any gaps in your employment, such as a stay at home mom, thats a job too. You should detail this also, it takes organizational skills to run a house. Be on time to any interviews, we didn't even go to see these people when the eventually showed up. Have a list of question for your prospective employer, what benefits do they offer, do they have a training program, anything you can think of to ask them. If you have several days before a interview, do some research on the company, what do they do, who are their clients, what would you like about the possible position or company.

Be positive, and good luck

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Originally Posted By: brokenhearted
There are some advantages to having a pervy boss: you'll get to have someone grabbing your @ss again since your H is no longer doing it! Remeber, there is always a silver lining! \:\) Good luck with the job hunt.
Don't worry I won't look like a hoochy mama, Pup, but I'm a little chesty and can't completely disguise that! I had a pervy boss the summer before I went to college. I was so ignorant of job-hunting I wore shorts to the interview (would never do that now of course) and am going to wear a church dress tomorrow, and it turns out he would only hire girls that wore shorts!!! Actually, he turned out to be a great boss, although one of my job duties was alerting him to cute girls that came in (it was a pharmacy/drugstore he owned)! He never touched me or got inappropriate; I have that air that people don't do that with me and they don't like to tell bad jokes in front of me or anything. One of my friend's boyfriends says I look like the girl next door; maybe that's why?

OK, my H is not very smart; driving me crazy! I homeschool my 2 as they are autism spectrum and dyslexic (H is dyslexic also). He just emailed me to keep my mind open about a full-time job & if I get one he could get a nicer apt. in a good school district (those are very expensive well over $1000 a month so my extra salary would go to him being able to afford an expensive apt. b/c he prob. wouldn't have to pay me much alimony (is his thought process I'm sure). But we tried to get special ed for my son and the little they did give him just speech therapy the speech therapist had 120 some kids she was seeing at different schools so she never had the time to see him and they have had a lot more budget cuts since then. I just don't get him!!! I think he is just thinking about himself rather than the kids. Then we would have to pay for tutors and things too! Does anyone think H's logic is flawed??? (I have tried to explain this to him a dozen times, plus I have a Master's degree in teaching and special ed courses too)! Karen


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