I hear the pain and hurt in your post. And can relate. After so much time you wonder if it will ever happen - I am S 2.5 years. Like Tink said to me about my S wedding - look fabulous! Think about making yourself someone he will want to love again. Look good and you will feel good about yourself and project the self confidence he will be attracted to. If you are going to have any expectations about tonight, let them be small in regards to H. A smile your way, a nod that you did a good job - remember to set the small goals. Attainable quickly. If this is your area of expertise and passion (the choir), then let it show. You are talented, confident and in your arena - be proud and show it!
Hope all goes well - let us know.


Me-48 H-48
Married 25years
Sep 12/05
S-24, S-22, S-18, D-12
Dated for 9 months of S, not dating now
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