Thats why I keep a daily journal so I can look back when I think all has been going bad and see the positive signs. I just need to stop thinking about the whole sitch and become her best friend and the best person I can be. Wanting instant results is not going to happen. I need to remember time and space is what she needs.
Have not had a R talk since 6/1 and don't plan on doing it again.
I liked the Texas Hold'em reference. Love to play that game.