Yes, you do. If you want to save it. You have already outed. Just sit back and observe. If you really know your W then your little voice will let you know when something is going on.
If you must tackle the OM in another fashion then I suggest you seek out Puppy Dog Tails on this BB. He seems experienced and has knowledge in sitches with OM's. His tactics are a little more on the, shall we say, Offensive side than the defensive side of the game.
Seems like there are many positives. If you can forget and not worry about OM for a while then you have a really good chance IMO. [/quote]
I know all that but its putting in practice that is hard. I really don't think I need Puppydog, he is an aggressive type of person and I don't think that will work in my sitch. And I already called his house which my wife found out about and drove by it which she does not know about but have not done any of that since mid April.
