((((Mishka))))) It IS reeally difficult to understand.
Originally Posted By: mishka422
To walk away from your family without fighting for it is ridiculous. I'm positive now that he's not MLC. He's just a WAH who decided he like it better away from responsibility and commitment. I really don't need that kind of a person in my life. His lack of concern for anyone other than himself sickens me.
I have to say that I kind of think that the selfishness coming out, and not being able to fight or discuss anything makes me MORE convinced that this is MLC. MLC people walk away without a thought because they're in such turmoil. They can't think of anyone besides themselves. They don't fight because they can't- they've lost touch with their real lives and are living almost in an alternative reality. If you can, try and find some of favourite weirdo's posts to read- they're very enlightening....
I don't kow if that's helpful. It doesn't make it easieer to understand their behaviour, but I do think the inner turmoil and confusion mean that slightly different DB tactics are needed for the MLCer than the WAS. Your H is still confused- it was only last week he was sending your flirtatious messages.
I know this is probably not helpful, but just wanted to throw it out!
BTW, I had a cup of coffee this morning and am now feeling hyperactive. Totally off my trolley- I'll have to go decaff next time!
