Just read the news... I don't have anything else to add than what the rest of the friends here said.
One sidenote and please don't get me wrong: If he is so dead serious he doesn't want to be married to you then let him go. Do NOT get yourself caught up in a power play using the divorce papers as your way to pressure him. I realise your anger and disappointment -to be honest, I am thinking I 'll be walking on your steps in about 2 weeks- but, you should try to think of how to get yourself OUT of this sitch and cut the losses. The man you've been describing is not the one you fell in love with. You would be on my case if we were RL friends and you knew I was treated like this. You've done all you could. Now you need to let go. Don't try to make it right or do justice. There is no such thing there now. Let him be and protect yourself. Channel your anger to physical activities and pamper yourself. Take your time. Come to think of it, consider this your last effort to turn things around. Love ya K
