My problem with the OM is I just can't stop thinking it might have been a PA. Not sure I could forgive her for that. She never really acted any different the whole time she was talking/texting him and she clamed it was simply a friendship, like haveing a male girlfriend. But what killed me is she said I love ya on one text and that is what drives me crazy. She said it was a friend kind of love and not a boyfriend type and that she would have left me before she would do that to me or the kids.
I need to just get over it and move on as she had said many times in April.
Yes, you do. If you want to save it. You have already outed. Just sit back and observe. If you really know your W then your little voice will let you know when something is going on.
If you must tackle the OM in another fashion then I suggest you seek out Puppy Dog Tails on this BB. He seems experienced and has knowledge in sitches with OM's. His tactics are a little more on the, shall we say, Offensive side than the defensive side of the game.
Seems like there are many positives. If you can forget and not worry about OM for a while then you have a really good chance IMO.
