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#1472892 06/08/08 03:42 AM
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Beautiful day on the golf course today...with my w. In the past, my attitude would have been totally different. W was very enthusiastic and lost her temper just a couple of times...which is good for her. She has really improved. We played Vegas I think it is called. we both hit and then go to the best ball,,,actually shot 40 / 36.
What is important to me is she wanted to spend time with me. D7 spent the afternoon with one of her little friends.
Tommorow W is spending the afternoon with D7 and some girlfriends and I will play more golf with my regular threesome.
W actually told me she was sorry for the last couple of months whle we were cuddling on the couch.
We decided that an all inclusive carribean vacation with a well rated kids club would be ideal for us. Probably Cuba (We could drink Mohitos all day and I could smoke cigars) or maybe the Dom. Rep. We will see.....
W really wants me to join her new company....I am not sure yet but she mentions it every day.
I can hardly believe things are going so well so quickly after a tough first few days.
Kerry, Korea House will have to wait till next week...the City is a madhouse with all the F1 tourists. I live 45 min. north of the city and it is much calmer, less polluted and cooler in the evenings.

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Day got off to a great start..nudge , nudge...D7 and W just left for more shopping and afternoon with the girls. I even got an ILY from W before leaving.........

I am off to see the boys .....

Wish everyone a nice Sunday afternoon / evening!

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I might as well stop checking on you. You get on my nerves with all the winking and nudging...

Seriously, it seems your wife never wanted something else than you and your family. She needed a break to realise it.

Continue being cautious but don't you dare forget the happy John.
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Wow, I am so excited for you, my face is one big smile!!

Things are progressing soooo nicely. I hope I can follow in your shoes. You never did tell me what cologne you wear so I can try it ;)!

I am jealous of the trip. I would LOVE to drink mojitos all day. We went to an all inclusive in Cancun and the stupid place had no mint, and thus no mojitos! Wish americans could go to cuba......


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Nudge Nudge Wink Wink

Happy Birthday John!

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Happy Birthday JOHN!!!!!!!

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Happy Birthday John!!!


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Thanks guys!

D7 and W sang happy bday (while I was still in bed) with plenty of hugs and kisses. Never in my wildest dreams did I think that June 11, 2008 would start this way. To all who are reading this (whether familiar with my sitch or not), everything is possible. As much as W lost it a year or so ago, she has come back a long way. She gave me a nice birthday card full of references to the future and to happy times in the past we shared. It was almost surreal to read that card this morning. W also gave me a gift certificate to a Golf store....I hope that she has something else "planned" for later.

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You being over here is killing me. I can't find your posts half the time.

I am so happy for you by friend. Truly happy. All the best to you.


Be positive.....



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Thanks Woog,
The reason I came over here is two fold. I was anticipating "problems" with my feelings (which I experienced early on) and I thought that people over here would be helpful. They have been during these early atages. Secondly, I did not want my "success" to neccesarily be front and center on a board where there is daily hurt and struggle. Basically I did not want to inadvertently be in your face. So, I continue to post over there and hope I contribute positively. Meanwhile, I lay low on this side and appreciate the odd visit from my old friends. Thanks for your words of encouragement today and especially during the last 6 months or so.

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