My problem with the OM is I just can't stop thinking it might have been a PA. Not sure I could forgive her for that. She never really acted any different the whole time she was talking/texting him and she clamed it was simply a friendship, like haveing a male girlfriend. But what killed me is she said I love ya on one text and that is what drives me crazy. She said it was a friend kind of love and not a boyfriend type and that she would have left me before she would do that to me or the kids.
I need to just get over it and move on as she had said many times in April.
