((((Michelle)))) this is soooooo not about you. You are getting along, then send OW an article and then BAM, hes pissed, shes on her way back and you are the bad guy. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure it out...TAP is on the rampage . I would be willing to bet this has a lot to do with her and its been long enough since she was here that your H has forgotten what an annoying pain in the a$$ she really is.
Don't take this personally, though how could you not. I think the thing that was posted earlier was very true. It wouldn't due to have TAP here and you show up...God forbid there be banging on the bedroom door at 5:45 a.m., though the neighbors may enjoy the floor show .
If he CHOOSES to miss the graduation, thats on him and something he can't ever get back...A$$hat! I like the disappearance suggestion. I would wait for him to contact me...period. If he is in such a rush to get this done, you will hear from him. If not then its pretty clear that he is still just up on the fence, swingin' in the wind.
The letter sounds like total BS and something that a kid would write to justify their actions, oh wait, thats right, just like most of our idiot WAS.
Take care of you, Michelle. You are amazing and deserve the world on a platter. I can't stress enough that this is not about you. Its a situation that you are being forced to deal with and from what you've posted, I am in awe of you. I can't tell you what to do, but maybe doing the LS is the way to go right now. Take the focus off of H and let him figure out that you aren't the problem after all. Sometimes it takes longer than others, but until you are not longer there to take the brunt of his bull$hit, he will just keep heaping it on. Like mine, its easier to blame you then figure out and fix the real problem.
As always, I am the blue-bird of happiness. Sent to your thread to make everything shiny and happy. Ok, how scary was that? Have fun at the graduation and remember, we are here for you no matter what you decide to do. Corey
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M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
. I would be willing to bet this has a lot to do with her and its been long enough since she was here that your H has forgotten what an annoying pain in the a$$ she really is. 
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I like the disappearance suggestion. I would wait for him to contact me...period. If he is in such a rush to get this done, you will hear from him. If not then its pretty clear that he is still just up on the fence, swingin' in the wind. 
Ok, how scary was that? Have fun at the graduation and remember, we are here for you no matter what you decide to do.
