my story adventures of a WAW!

[jandn]

This is very interesting subject matter. I followed you over her Flipper. I thought I have seen christarn's posts a while back I when she was starting C.

But anyways, I thought getting in touch with the IL's was a rule breaker but understand you must go with what you feel is best for yourself sometimes. My W told me that when she told her family she was filing, the stood behind her. Then W said when put D on hold, that she went against her word to her family. I dont know if that was a lie or not, but W even mentioned how her brother has really never liked me but her dad loves me. I would like very much to have gotten in touch with him during this process and was suppose for an assignment that we never did, but feel its too late unless W is willing to put D on hold again and show me that we still might have a chance.

What I am saying or asking is when is the right time to apologize to them if ever? Cause wont it look like you are begging or pleading? I know you say you are doing it for your own healing Flipper, does that mean no matter which path is choose for you, M or D, you arent necessarily doing it to save your marriage?

I think its way too late for me to be up, probably not making the words tie together real well. Better look at this later today after I get oh, almost 5 hours of sleep. But hey, I am young!