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About him noticing the changes, I think that's something all of us worry about here in Separation. Don't worry, he's watching you very closely, but BS won't work at this point. And really, the changes are about becoming a better you, regardless of whether he wakes up or not.

You sound so much stronger over the last couple weeks, even if it doesn't feel like it. Keep it up!

Me: 30
W: 28
T 8, M 6
S: 7-27-2007
W filed (again) 3-2011
Served 8-2011
Responded, now dark
"I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK