Are you going to have to buy him out of his share of the house? If your H is anything like my H right now, I bet he will blow through it very quickly. Why is it that the WS tend to walk the same path? If only the all came out at the same point then it would save us alot of heartache and worry. I'm glad to hear that you have been able to detach enough to no longer get you down. The way I am coping is by realizing my H is mentally ill and there is nothing I can do about it. He will either decided to get better or I need to move on so that his illness does not make me just as sick as well.

Your doing great.


Broken Hearted
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Me - 36
H - 37
S - 8
Married - 1992
ILYNILWY - August 2007
Moved Out - March 2008
OW Revieled - May 28, 2008
Filed for D - July 2, 2008

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