I'm so glad you got to see that site. I have found that there are many, many sources of help and hope out there on the Internet, and each little piece has helped me get to where I am today, especially what I learned about emotional intelligence and co-dependence.
DBing has been a HUGE part of my "reinvention", but it took me awhile to get it - I think that's just the LBS mentality. I saw DBing at first only as a tool to get H back. When I finally "got" the part of it about using it to make me happy w/ myself so that I would be strong enough to deal w/ whatever happened b/w me and H, then I realized how powerful and amazing I truly am, we all are.
It's been a b#tch, the hardest 2 years of my life, but oh man, if it never happened, who would I be today??? Maybe some Stepford Wife.
I've been reading your story and many others, lurking for the past few months and not posting much. I'll keep you updated, though, since I've gotten so much from all you wonderful people on these boards! I'd love to be able to give something back!
Plus I know that piecing is just the beginning of a new challenge, and I'm going to need all the help I can get.
FA
What does not destroy me, makes me stronger.
FA:43, H:42 D:7 M:10 yrs, T:24 yrs EA:?, PA:1/06 S:3/07 EA/PA ongoing Aborted attempt to move home 07/08
