Kiwi,
If you are anything like me, women's behaviour and expectations has always been a mystery. If so, have you read Deida's "Way of the Superior Man" or maybe "For Men Only" by the Feldhahns or "Women's Infidelity" by Michelle Langley? I think all of these books may give you some insight into your W's state of min. The last one has been recommended by several posters in Piecing.

Otherwise, you sound like typical couples who are trying to piece the M back together. Just keep experimenting and you will find what works for you.

SD


Me 41
W 41
Kids: S9 S7
Married 16 years
Bomb dropped 2/2/07
Still living together!
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