Attraction is 50% of a healthy relationship IMHO. If that part of the relationship is still sparking, then I think you have a better than average chance of repairing the relationship if you can address the other 50% outside the bedroom.
I would have settled for just being a "booty call" after our separation, but I wasn't offered that opportunity. I mean, she was more than welcome to use me in that sense and I let her know that. No strings attached, I'm your booty man, do what I can type thing. Strangely enough though, I think she would have thought of sex with me as cheating on her OM who wasn't able to do anything with her in that regard anyway due to his circumstances. I think we would have had a better chance at reconciliation if that aspect of our relationship was still there, but sadly, it was one of the catalyst for our total "disconnect" after a long period of time. Even I lost my appetite for her sexually after many month.
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
