I will share that after my divorce (I found DB 2 Relationships after)....I plunged into a relationship with someone. My ex was abusive, but my relationship that developed so quickly afterwards enfuriated him....he stopped getting help for himself. MAYBE he would have continued, and maybe we would have healed if he had done so.
It hurt my daughter's feelings (she was 6), and confused her as well, hurt my ex husband's family and sent me on some emotional rollercoasters for a few years. Not all good times.
There is some temporary relief in these relationships, but there can be so much anguish, that if you can spare yourself and your family this much, it will most likely be better for you.
Saying a prayer for you and your wife....that your heart may be filled.
Last edited by sgctxok; 06/11/0802:00 AM.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
