I am in your same sitch. Wife is more sexual now then in the last four years of our M. She is always sure to tell me that this doesn't change anything. I always say I understand, but am hoping that for inside it does start to open her heart back up to me. Another thing we talk more and have a great time together. We are better friends now as well. This really sucks because this is all I wanted when we were M and it takes until now for her to give it to me. The other day she hit a low though. She asked if I met anyone when I was at a party the night before. I told her I talked to someone but thats all. Thing is she brought this conversation up while we were ML. Good news is she kept asking more questions about it the rest of the day. Maybe a little jealous. Who Knows.
