I just read your thread and my head is still spinning that OW had the nerve to send you that email. My DB coach says that OW/OM are usually without boundaries (obviously they persued a married person) and the email thing definitely screams NO BOUNDARIES! Truly amazing that someone would do that but it makes her seem insecure to me. If she really felt she had him why would she feel the need to rub it in your face?

Hang in there - you are a catch! H's activities are never as exciting as we immagine them to be when we are depressed I think :o) You are doing so good by not calling/contacting him. (((((nlt)))))

Me 32/H 32
M 3yrs/T 8 yrs
0 kids and 1 dog
Bomb 5/15/08 - wants to end it to pursue OW
Seeing OW and moving out 7/08