Thanks again everyone. I am doing really well. I have really detatched and am honestly getting to the point where I don't want to be with my H anymore. In that I mean the man that is currently here. I really can't stand him.

My lawyer called today. Said that the paperwork for the settlement is ready and I am meeting with her next week to go over it. I am ready to get him out of the house as soon as possible. Sad that it takes divorce to do that, but that is how it is.

Thanks for checking up on me. Living in 2 places now (my house and my moms) I dont get to be online as much (mom doesn't have the internet...can you believe it?)

Sara

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08