Real live is....part 4!

[LL44]

Oh my friend.

[girlfromipanema]

(((((Sara))))))

Hope you're feeling strong today.

[JeffSTL]

Hey Sara, Its Jeff from St Louis.

Thinking of you.

Wish you lived closer, I would take you out for a drink.

We all have a long haul ahead of us good or bad it's the path we choose thats important.

M45
W41
M10 3/4 years
D9, D6, D6, S5
OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me
WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08

[karen43]

I have filed. Paperwork should be ready by the end of this week.

Wow! That's huge! How are you feeling Sara??? ((((Sara)))))) Karen

[lodo]

I have filed. Paperwork should be ready by the end of this week.

Hi Sara, thinking of you - you've done way more and been through things you shouldn't have to go through. Be strong - it's all working out for the best.

lodo

[Sugar and Spice]

((((Sara)))) just stopping by to say my thoughts and prayers are with you and I do so admire your strength and restraint.

You are a remarkable woman and your H is a fool.

Corey

[Starshyne]

Thanks again everyone. I am doing really well. I have really detatched and am honestly getting to the point where I don't want to be with my H anymore. In that I mean the man that is currently here. I really can't stand him.

My lawyer called today. Said that the paperwork for the settlement is ready and I am meeting with her next week to go over it. I am ready to get him out of the house as soon as possible. Sad that it takes divorce to do that, but that is how it is.

Thanks for checking up on me. Living in 2 places now (my house and my moms) I dont get to be online as much (mom doesn't have the internet...can you believe it?)

Sara

[No Longer BH]

Are you going to have to buy him out of his share of the house? If your H is anything like my H right now, I bet he will blow through it very quickly. Why is it that the WS tend to walk the same path? If only the all came out at the same point then it would save us alot of heartache and worry. I'm glad to hear that you have been able to detach enough to no longer get you down. The way I am coping is by realizing my H is mentally ill and there is nothing I can do about it. He will either decided to get better or I need to move on so that his illness does not make me just as sick as well.

Your doing great.

[cat03]

you are doing the right thing hon, enough is enough, there is a limit to EVERy thing.

You are always in my prayers, you can do this, you will move past this trial by fire)))))))))))))))))

[Starshyne]

Yes, I am going to buy him out of his part of the house and I am sure that money will be gone in a flash. I haven't talked to him in at least 3 days and it feels so GOOD.