Thanks TD. She was very concerned that I would tell her H and I must confess I was tempted! I sent her a Mothers Day greeting (along with other Moms I knew) and she told my H!!!
Very stupid little things really. I think that H was also meeting her needs too. I know that her H wasn't communicative with her but my H was. She got this need met through him. I don't know what H got from her though. Maybe simple friendship. We lost that along the way.
I know he feels bad for what happened but he really doesn't/didn't see anything wrong with being friends with her. He's not very empathetic I'm afraid.
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
