custody hearing on friday -- so scared

[NikB]

No no no - I didn't mean to scare you! I was just saying that's why I'm emphasizing (and so is your L) the need to remain calm. That's all. You've been doing a great job of it since then, and no way are they going to base the decision on ONE incident that happened in an extremely stressful situation.

no one is questioning h's psycho behavior.

I hope you're kidding!! Your L is not bringing all this stuff up to the social worker, and the judge?????

I am the one who has found therapy for her, not h.

Again... I hope you're kidding about them not seeing this!

PLEASE tell me you and your L are documenting this stuff and telling the social workers and the judge. The work you've done with her teachers, the therapy, all of that. And now that I think about it didn't the school C seem like your H was a bit off his rocker when you met with her? Can the social workers talk to her and get her take??