I'm glad I was able to "guilt you into posting an update" SD.
Your posts always seem so centered & calm, even when you're describing something that may not be. It'll be interesting to see what they're like minus caffeine! You'll definitely be known as The Buddhist poster.
That's part of the detaching, isn't it, taking breaks from thinking about the sitch & adding some attraction chemicals to the mix is probably a welcome break.
Yes, moving would definitely force a change in your R with your W. I think she would go with you though, wouldn't she?