Thanks for checking in. I am going to get through this. Her agreeing to 50/50 split was a good thing. Her intention was never to take the girls from me. I believe this. She just has a belief that kids belong with the mother. She finally told me that she doesn't think that I can care for them.
I told her last night also that if she WERE to leave and I stay with the kids, I would never consider her abandoning the kids. More of a decision of whats best for them and that I would never keep them from her. That is how I was trying to sell it at least. I know people would see it differently.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."