I'm so glad you has such a nice weekend. I think the 180's and not being available (logistically speaking) is a great idea. I'd let the conversation come from him. I can only imagine how hard it would be to wait, but knowing you are on a good path forward hopefully will give you some calm to wait.
I always get so hopeful reading your thread. I'm so glad this has worked for you.
Chris
__________ Me:39 H:39 D:8 D:4 M:9 (T 13) Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08, Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09 Still doing GREAT a year later!!!