We "did it" for the first few months we were separated, then decided not to, since it was putting W's head in a weird place (no pun intended).

Since we have gotten back together, we have cooled down to once a week or so, with a bit of playing around in between, but I think that the sex we had while separated showed her (and me) that it could be passionate, energetic and wonderful. Very different from how we were just before separating (like once a month if we were lucky).

So, if it feels good, do it. If there's any weirdness, stop. It's really your decision.


Me: 54
Her: 50 and sexy as hell
M: 32yrs
T: 34yrs
Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection"
Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire"
She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08!
Everything's GREAT!