Saffie is 100% correct. DO NOT come on too strong. Remember the chameleon effect...when things go really well, the next hour or the next day she will pull away. You need to be the confident, happy, CONSISTENT man she originally fell in love with. Even when things are weird. Consistent, that's the key.
There will be times when you're sure she's reconsidering. Times when you're thinking "she's thinking she made a mistake". Shake it off. Be in for the long haul, because that's what it takes from your end.
'Falling back into old patterns' will be her #1 fear, so it should be yours too.
Forget the past, deal with today and get to work!
Me: 54 Her: 50 and sexy as hell M: 32yrs T: 34yrs Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection" Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire" She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08! Everything's GREAT!
