If I decide to go he wants me to go first and get settled (find a job and somewhere to live) Then D could go. I know he wants her to be taken care of as do I.
Jen, before you make any decisions find out what the laws are re taking D to live in another country. I'm not sure what your rights are if you leave D there with H. Just being cautious.
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